Sunday, March 31, 2013

Joy Dare

Joy Dare for the past week.  Well, I've not been doing so well....but let's see what I remember from the past week.

Gifts from God:
  • time spent remember Christ and what christians refer to as Passion Week (All week)
  • reading (again) the book "Next Door Savior" by Max Lucado (Saturday)
  • Another good TFC Dinner Concert. (Saturday)
  • That I got the seating right for the concert (no double-booking!) (Saturday)
  • Listening to Will & Sherry's testimony (Saturday)
  • The Stutzman Family Singers music (Saturday)
  • Hanging out with Randy's Family on Friday evening
  • Hanging out with my family today (Sunday)
  • Celebrating Easter with our church family this morning (Sunday)
  • Singing all those wonderful resurrection hymns! (Sunday)
  • Including "The Easter Anthem" (even though I really struggle since this church sings out of the Church & Sunday School Hymnal instead of the Mennonite Hymnal which I learned it from.) (Sunday)
  • A clean house (Friday)
  • Good therapy sessions for Mark (Tuesday)
  • Seeing Zach s-l-o-w-l-y maturing in how he handles disappointment/anger/stress. (throughout the week)
  • Josiah, Autumn, and Janae helping out with the banquet (Saturday)
  • a restful morning/afternoon (Saturday)
  • Daffodils and Crocuses blooming (all week)

Happy Easter!


Friday, March 29, 2013

Good Friday



Celebrating Good Friday today.  Remembering the Cross.



This morning the kids & I painted eggs.  Randy stopped by for lunch and took all the kids along back to the shop.  I'm going to clean and do more laundry and dishes.  This evening Randy's family is getting together to celebrate Easter.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Maundy Thursday



On the Christian church calendar, today is Maundy Thursday...the day we remember Jesus celebrating the Passover with his disciples...called "The Last Supper".  For the last number of years (5 maybe?  or more?) our church has a special meal and communion service on Maundy Thursday.

At the church we previously attended (and where I attended all my life until we switched to a closer church), we had a tradition of singing this song (a cappella in 4-part harmony) at the end of the communion service.


Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Bread Recipe

I'm not a food blogger.  But for the sake of one of my friends, here's one of our favorite recipes (minus pictures since I didn't take any).

Mother Buch's Bread Recipe

Combine:
5 cups warm water
3 Tablespoons yeast (or 3 packets)
5 Tablespoons vegetable oil
1 cup sugar
4 teaspoons salt

Work in 12 cups Oxident Flour (or 8 c. oxident + 4 c. whole wheat).  Knead well.  Put in lightly oiled pan to rise.  Let rise 2 hours.  Punch down dough.  Let rise 1 more hour.  Divide into 5 loaves.  Put into greased bread pans.  Prick with fork.  Let rise 2 hours.  Bake @ 325 degrees for 30 minutes.  Remove bread from pan.  Butter tops.  Spread damp paper towel over loaves while cooling.

My Notes:
  1. I've divided this in 2 and made it in my Kitchen Aid Mixer with the dough hook.  Worked well.  And then I made the mistake of making it all by hand just to see what it was like.  Yeah.  That's even better!
  2. Bread will be denser if using whole wheat flour.
  3. Rising time depends on how warm the room is.  Because we keep our house very warm (woodstove), I usually don't let it rise quite as long (or it would spill over the edge of my pan).
  4. "Divide into 5 Loaves"  I divide it, then kind of work it with my hands into an oblong shape, working out some of the air bubbles.
  5. My mom got this recipe from her friend who was "Mother Buch's" Daughter-in-law.  (If I understand correctly.)

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Loot

We collected assorted free stuff at the truck show...candy, pens, flyers on things we're interested in, bouncy balls.  We also bought each of the kids a little something.  Josiah, Autumn, & Janae got shirts.  Zach, Mark, & Micah got hats (for some reason Freightliner didn't have any child size shirts).



Our trip to Kentucky

Every March the "Mid America Trucking Show" is held in Louisville, Kentucky.  Randy has gone a couple of other times with friends and has been after me to go along some year.  This year we no longer have any babies or children in foster care so it worked out.  As it occurs from Thursday-Saturday during the school year the children ended up being scattered among various homes.  Everyone did well.
 
Wednesday morning (March 20) Randy went for a CT Scan (follow-up to some lung issues he had last summer).  When he returned home we packed up the 3 youngest and dropped them off at my cousin's house.  We then went and picked up another couple who was traveling with us and headed west.  We left around 10:45 a.m. and arrived at our motel on the south side of Louisville around 10:30.  We made stops for lunch and supper.  And called around to find a motel for the night.
 
This was our room at the Best Western just south of Louisville where we spent the first night.  Nice place.  And the complimentary breakfast was at the Denny's across the parking lot.  That was good too!
 
After breakfast we headed north to the Kentucky Expo Center.  We made a quick stop to check-in to the hotel that we had booked for the 2nd night.  Then we went to the Trucking Show.  We had VIP passes so we could get in at 10:00 instead of waiting until 1:00 when the show officially opened to the public.  While there were lots and lots of people there, it doesn't get shoulder-to-shoulder packed until Friday afternoon or Saturday.

In the main wing every major dealer of trucks and trailers had large booths with lots of equipment to check out.  This was the Freightliner area where we were checking out their newest trucks.  Randy got to test drive the latest version!

Randy checking out a Peterbilt.

There were other trucks throughout the show that vendors had to show their customization and chrome and parts.
 

 
Outside there was a "Pride & Polish" show.  Trucks that were cleaned up and sparkled and were customized.  Rich man's toys.  :-)

Looking out towards some of the customized trucks.
 

The sunlight (and me rushing) interfered with this photo.  This person had created a gear shift and steering wheel out of chain link.  I thought it would've been rather uncomfortable to actually drive it.  It also had doors which swung up.
 
It was very cold last week so we didn't stay outside very long.  Then we went back inside and meandered around the booths.  I think the directory said that there were 1050 vendors!  All the large manufacturers of trucks and trailers, engine dealers, brake dealers, transmission dealers, dealers of all sorts of parts (both original and after-market), insurance companies, truckstop/fuel companies, aerodynamic additions companies, tire manufacturers, dash cam dealers, Canadian border authority....pretty much anything you can imagine that is related to trucking and then a few more.  There were also ministries to the trucking community like Transport for Christ.  I saw one stand full of hand bags and luggage.  A whole section was large trucking companies recruiting drivers.
 
Late afternoon we met back up with our friends and headed back to the motel to settle in for about half an hour.  Then we went to Mark's Feed Store where we met up with a bunch of friends (including our Truck insurance salesman) for supper.  I forgot my camera to that event.  The food was absolutely delicious!  And I loved the sweet tea.  We also got to try a southern pie...Buttermilk Pie.  It was good, but very sweet.  I should've had coffee with it.  :-)
 
Our motel that night was not quite what we had planned.  A few weeks before going to KY the motel which we had booked called and said that there had been a flood (I was a bit confused, I'm assuming a waterpipe break?) and that they switched our reservations to another motel for the same rate.  Anyway.  This motel was not quite what we had hoped for...but in the end it was one of those "you were disappointed but God meant it for your good" moments.
 
Friday morning I woke up early.  We were planning on meeting our friends at 8:00, but I told Randy to text them at 7:30 and let them know we were ready whenever they were.  As our friend was approaching the pick-up from checking out, someone called his name.  Here a friend of his (& Randy, & Randy's Dad) was walking across the road.  Our friend had not seen this guy for 15 years.  It made his & Randy's day before it started.  :-)  We then went across the street and ate breakfast at Shoney's.  And wouldn't you know, that man and his group showed up too....and we paid at the same time so they got to talk some more.  We all then went to the truck show...but we didn't see him there.  So we felt very blessed to be able to see him as we did.
 
Back at the truck show....
 

I think they use trucks like this in Australia.
 
One thing that fascinated me was how you would see people with cameras going up to trucks and taking photos in underneath of parts.  And making all sorts of notes.  Looked a lot like people trying to steal designs and engineering to make "knock-off" brands....but perhaps they just like to have photos of truck parts?!

From the parking lot looking at the main entrance.  In the distance you can see one of the back wing of the building.  It was huge.  We did a lot of walking.

At the end I got our friend to take our photo...to prove that I was along.  :-)  And to give me a new photo for my profile on facebook.
 
We left Louisville around 1:30 and arrived home around 12:30 a.m. Saturday.  We had a lovely, relaxing time.  The kids managed in the assorted homes they stayed in.  Josiah went to Ohio for a quiz retreat while we were gone so he didn't get home until Sunday evening.

Monday, March 25, 2013

Monday

Snowing
 
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Sleepy
 
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Bread rising
 
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Sticky Bun dough rising
 
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Laundry washing
 
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and drying
 
 
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Monday

Joy Dare - 3/18 - 3/25

  • a daffodil bloom on a cloudy grey day
  • Sturgis Little Ones pretzels and Sharp Cheddar Cheese
  • Spending 3 days with Randy & another couple without the kids
  • Coming back to the kids.
  • No cooking, laundry, or cleaning for 3 days.  :-)

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Quick Post

Randy & I got back very early this morning from a quick trip to the Mid America Trucking Show in Louisville, KY with some friends.  The kids were at assorted friends and family and everything went well.  Now we're adjusting back to normal.  I'm doing lots of laundry and catch-up. We had a wonderful, relaxing time.  I hope to post about it soon!

Monday, March 18, 2013

Monday - Random Thoughts

We had a good weekend.  Saturday night we went out to eat with Randy's family.  All in all it went fine.  Sunday we went to church.  Our Pastor has picked the song "Christ Has Risen From the Dead" to be kind of a theme song as we're coming up to Easter.  It was a new song for me but I've enjoyed learning it.



Josiah had a quizzing tournament Sunday afternoon and evening.  Lots of fun!

Today Zach got another tooth filled.  Mark's IU13 occupational therapist didn't show up so tomorrow I need to call and find out if I have it wrong on my calendar or what the story is.

Tuesday I get to stay home all day...finish up the laundry from today...straighten up the house...

Finding Joy - Joy Dare - Mar. 11-17

I haven't taken the time to look up the prompts for this week....but here's my Joy Dare....

  1. Reese's Peanut Butter Eggs
  2. a festive scarf
  3. a friend's encouraging phone call...when I needed it most....
  4. good ticket sales for the TFC Banquet
  5. Little boys staying with me when we shopped.
  6. relaxing at a therapy appointment
  7. Finding some light reading for free (e-books)
  8. Matt Redman's We Shall Not Be Shaken CD
  9. Coffee with a friend today
  10. Our kids playing together well.
  11. Hazelnut and Chocolate Caramel Coffee Creamer
  12. Hot water...and plenty of it.
  13. Diapers and Wipes....lots of diapers and wipes....
  14. Socks
  15. UPS and places that ship for free

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Random Thoughts

The cold has returned, but the sunshine was here as well...and I do love the sunshine.

Today was a very good day.  No major meltdowns.  Kids mostly contented and playing nicely.  Laundry got done.  Odds and Ends got accomplished.  Lovely.

I've been thinking a lot about "rejection".  With our high-energy, quick-mood-changing son...I've become convinced that the underlying issue behind it all is the feeling of rejection.  Where even a simple "no, not now" or paying attention to another child becomes in his mind a "I'm not worthy" threat resulting in a fight-or-flight adrenaline reaction (in his case "fight" almost always wins over flight, although not always).  The good thing is, though, that while this week has been a bit of a setback, over all he's doing so much better.  As he's maturing, his self-control is starting to catch up as well.  And I love to see that sparkling personality shining through as his innerself heals.

This week Mark saw 4 therapists in 3 days.  Thankfully, this should be the last week that happens.  We'll be getting on a more staggered schedule starting in April.

Sometime soon I need to go to the store as I'm out of milk.

I love Reese's Peanut Butter Eggs.

We listen to a varied music selection around here...the little boys current favorites are "Boundless Love" (Ernie Haase & Signature Sound), "Like a Lion" (David Crowder Band) and some old country songs..."The Battle of New Orleans", "North to Alaska" and "Truck Drivin' Man".  I love to hear Micah request them..his speech is not really very clear yet and it's adorable.  :-)  And I heard Zach singing "My God's not dead he's surely alive and he's living on the inside, roaring like a Ryan".  :-)

Okay.  I'm obviously babbling on about nothing...tomorrow is play group day and I'm excited about that.  Now I'm going to go read...

Monday, March 11, 2013

Monday morning

It's early, but I actually pulled myself out of bed early today.

I didn't get around to doing Joy Dare for last week, but here's a few:
  • Sunshine and warmer weather for Saturday and Sunday
  • Relaxing days
  • children (mine and neighbors) running around outside; sounds of them playing
  • going to church; corporate worship
This morning Miss S. (Mark's IU13 PT) will be here at 8:00.

Later we are getting the boys together with a couple of their biological siblings.

Time change messes us all up...hopefully we adjust quickly!

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Saturday

Cleaning bathrooms
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Laundry
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Randy cutting wood
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Some kids with him; some with me
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Beautiful music playing
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Peaceful
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A day to just do odds and ends
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with no appointments or obligations
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Sunshine
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Dishes
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all equals a good day....

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

No Snow...

...just rain with an occasional bit of snow mixed in.  The kids had off of school though as it was canceled before they realized it would stay south of us/be rain.  Mark's speech therapy was canceled as well.  We did some cleaning, then I took the kids to my sister-in-law's house and took Zach to get a cavity filled at the dentist (he did great).  Ordinary day....

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Snow!?!

There is a possibility that we will have snow tomorrow.  It is mostly going to the south of us, but we should get a bit...guess we'll find out tomorrow!  I have two appointments tomorrow (Mark's speech therapy and Zach's dentist appointment to get a cavity filled) so we'll see whether we get to stay home or go out.  So far we haven't had much snow this year or last year so it'd be lovely to see some snow that's more than an inch.

Monday, March 4, 2013

February 25 - March 3

This week's prompts:
2/25 - a gift worn out, new, made-do
2/26 - 3 gifts seen as reflections
2/27 - 3 ugly-beautiful gifts
2/28 - 3 gifts from the past - that help you trust the future
3/1 - 3 gifts at 3 pm
3/2 - 3 gifts green
3/3 - 3 gifts wore

Gifts:
  • meeting (and liking) Mark's in-home physical therapist
  • getting the laundry all washed, dried, folded, and put away
  • Gathering with friends in my kitchen after the kids are in bed

  • Mark's (formerly Zach's) fabulous Occupational Therapist
  • Mark's fabulous Physical Therapist
  • And how much I learn from both of them

  • Mark's fabulous speech therapist
  • Randy stopping in for breakfast
  • Coffee with a friend

  • Mark's in-home occupational therapist
  • that Zach was calm during that therapy time...woo hoo!
  • coffee and play date with other adoptive moms

  • Randy coming home
  • snuggling cranky boys
  • reading books to boys

  • Adoption Equipping Training with Miss Laura (loved it!)
  • hanging out with family at an extended family dinner
  • a little bit of sunshine

  • Finally figuring out how to "do church" when Randy's not with us (sit with friends, put older kids on different bench).
  • a swept kitchen floor
  • putting together a "new" outfit from existing things in my closet.


Friday, March 1, 2013

Reflections on Sunday

1 Peter 3:14-16
But even if you should suffer for what is right you are blessed.  "Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened."  But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord.  Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.  But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.

Isaiah 8:12-13
Do not call conspiracy everything that these people call conspiracy;
do not fear what they fear, and do not dread it.
The LORD Almighty is the one you are to regard as holy,
he is the one you are to fear,
he is the one you are to dread...

These were the 2 passages our guest speaker used in the serman on Sunday.  I really appreciated it.  It seems on the internet/facebook etc. there are always controversies and conspiracy theories and I appreciated that these verses addressed that (Isaiah was talking about life thousands of years ago...but nothing has changed)!  There have always been conspiracies (both real and imagined); there always will be.  But we are to be more concerned about pleasing/fearing God who has the power over our eternal life, than about these conspiracies.  He also talked a lot about knowing why we believe and how to answer any questions others have...with gentleness and respect, not with anger or manipulation.

To hear his actual words, not my interpretation, listen (or watch) at www.gehmanmennonitechurch.org - 2/24/13

Friday Morning

Yesterday the boys and I got out for a walk around the block for the first time in ages (I really don't like being cold).  We went to play group with a couple of my friends (who are also adoptive moms).  We did laundry.  We met Mark's in-home IU13 occupational therapist; we were all calm while she was here (a miracle!).

Today's plans are cleaning and laundry.  Randy should be home later this evening.  He is going on a Men's Retreat this weekend.  Josiah has quizzing tonight.  Tomorrow I'm going to an adoption/trauma/respite conference and we have an extended family dinner.  Sunday we will be going to church and Randy will be coming home.  Josiah will have quizzing in the evening.

Okay...off the computer and to work...